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MARRIAGE BATTLE 1

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 MARRIAGE BATTLE 1 As soon as I cleared out the dinner table, I went into the bedroom, not bothering to say goodnight to Kenny in the living room. I knew he was going to be coming to bed soon enough. I needed him to think I was fast asleep by the time he came to bed. I quickly got into the bathroom and had a quick shower before climbing into bed. I made sure I put on my long pyjamas so there was no way he could have easy access to my body. About an hour later when I heard him climb into bed and turn the other way, I finally let out the breath I was holding. I managed to escape the sex tonight. By the time I woke up the next morning, I knew we were going to have another round of noise and fight and I quickly said a silent prayer to God for strength. I could feel his hand roaming round my body relentlessly and there was no doubt in my mind what the expected the end result to be. I opened my eyes and took a glimpse at the clock on the wall. It was just 6.am . I turn...

How to Set Systems Instead of Goals: A Life-Changing Approach Inspired by Jim Rohn - Part 2

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Most people set goals at the start of the year—big, exciting dreams like lose 20 pounds , start a business , or save more money . But here’s the hard truth: Goals alone don’t create results—systems do. Jim Rohn, one of the greatest motivational teachers of all time, often said: "Success is nothing more than a few simple disciplines, practiced every day." It’s not the goal that changes your life—it’s the daily discipline behind it. Goals vs. Systems: What’s the Difference? Goals are outcomes. They tell you what you want. Example: Run a marathon in 6 months. Systems are processes. They tell you how you’ll get there. Example: Run 5 km every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday, and increase by 1 km each week.       Why Systems Beat Goals Goals Have an End Point, Systems Create Continuity Once you hit a goal, you often stop. Systems keep you improving for life. Goals Rely on Motivation, Systems Build Habits Motivation fades; habits run on autopilot. Goals Ca...

How To Set Systems Instead Of Goals (a system that will change your life) - Jim Rohn Motivation

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    How to Set Systems Instead of Goals: A Life-Changing Approach Inspired by Jim Rohn Most people set goals at the start of the year—big, exciting dreams like lose 20 pounds , start a business , or save more money . But here’s the hard truth: Goals alone don’t create results—systems do. Jim Rohn, one of the greatest motivational teachers of all time, often said: "Success is nothing more than a few simple disciplines, practiced every day." It’s not the goal that changes your life—it’s the daily discipline behind it. Goals vs. Systems: What’s the Difference? Goals are outcomes. They tell you what you want. Example: Run a marathon in 6 months. Systems are processes. They tell you how you’ll get there. Example: Run 5 km every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday, and increase by 1 km each week. Why Systems Beat Goals Goals Have an End Point, Systems Create Continuity Once you hit a goal, you often stop. Systems keep you improving for life. Goals Rely on Motiv...

Signal and Noise: Learning to Focus on What Truly Matters

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  In our fast-paced, hyperconnected world, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. Every day, we are bombarded with notifications, opinions, breaking news, and endless content. Some of it is valuable—guiding us, teaching us, moving us closer to our goals. But much of it is just noise —distractions that drain our energy and scatter our attention. The real challenge? Learning to tune out the noise and tune in to the signal . Understanding the Difference In communication and decision-making, signal refers to the meaningful, useful, and actionable information—the truth, the insight, the data point that matters. Noise , on the other hand, is the background chatter—irrelevant information, emotional clutter, fear, and doubt that keep you from seeing the bigger picture. Think of your life as a radio. The signal is your frequency—your purpose, goals, and core values. The noise is every other station fighting for your attention, pulling you away from what truly matters. Why Most People St...

THE POWER OF CHANGE

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Something that affects many of us is the fear of change.  Does change make you uncomfortable, even if it’s a change for the better? Are Your Fears Real? A wise man once said that FEAR means False Evidence Appearing Real. In fact, the vast majority of our fears never ever come to pass. Experts have actually estimated that 90% of our fears are regarding points that will certainly never ever happen! This means we waste an awful lot of time and electricity worrying regarding points that don’t matter!   But fear can easily be harnessed and transformed in to the strongest motivator!

Self-Dispcipline: Persistence

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persistence is the ability to maintain action regardless of your feelings.you press on even when you feel like quitting.  persistence is also the ability to endure in the face of opposition or adversity. persistence people usually stand out from their environment and are often misunderstood or ridiculed because they can make those around them feel uncomfortable.

What is the Right Age for a Relationship?

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One of the most frequently asked questions I hear is, “what is the right age to get involved in a relationship?” My first answer is a joke—I tell them “30.” After the students stop laughing I give them my real answer.What is the right age? You are ready for a relationship if you are prepared to get married within a reasonable amount of time. I agree with many Christian authors on this point—dating/courting should be preparation for marriage. If you cannot seriously think about marriage, you should probably not be involved in an exclusive relationship with the opposite sex. I see “puppy love” all the time here in Manila. I see high school kids walking around the mall holding hands. The college students also make decisions that are unwise and directly contradict their own plans. I often ask a crowd of students what age they would like to get married. Most of them say “25.” This is how I respond: “Guys, you are all about 17 years old (some groups of students are e...

5 point to note in prosperity

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1.         You need to be a giver/a cheerful giver for that matter : 2 Corinthians says “ Every man according as he purposeth in his heart, so let him give; not grudgingly, or of necessity: for God loveth a cheerful giver”. God is willing to give back to a cheerful giver because God love a cheerful giver The book of john 3 v 16 which says “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life”. The bible express how God love the world and His willing to give to those He loves.